The Great Fatherhood Shift: Why Modern Dads Are Doing More at Home

The Great Fatherhood Shift: Why Modern Dads Are Doing More at Home

Fatherhood is changing, and the data now shows that this shift is real. New research from the American Institute for Boys and Men highlights a major trend that many couples are already experiencing in their own homes. After years of stalled progress, gender convergence inside the home has restarted, and fathers are helping drive the change. Men are spending more time caring for their children, taking on household responsibilities, and becoming more engaged in their children’s emotional lives.

When Being a Mother Doesn’t Mean Making a Choice

When Being a Mother Doesn’t Mean Making a Choice

There is a deeply held belief—one that is almost never spoken aloud but is ever-present—that professional and family life function like communicating vessels: what one gains, the other loses. Under this logic, balancing motherhood with a high-level career—whether in sports, management, or academia—is not a matter of two projects coexisting, but rather two projects competing for the same scarce resource: time, energy, and the ability to be present.

Is It a Waste to Educate a Housewife?

Is It a Waste to Educate a Housewife?

What are we to make of this odd agreement between career-focused liberal feminists and gender-role-obsessed traditionalists that prospective housewives shouldn’t go to college? Does a woman who wants to be a stay-at-home mother have any business pursuing higher education, even a master’s degree or a PhD? Is a woman who ends up staying home to care for her kids wasting her education?

The Male Breadwinner Model Was Never Traditional

The Male Breadwinner Model Was Never Traditional

I argue that the breadwinner model is not traditional but was a radical invention that was little more than a century old at its peak. It carried within it the very pathologies that now afflict the dual-earner model that succeeded it. If we want to understand why men and women struggle to build genuine partnerships today, we need to go further back than the postwar golden age to really understand what the breadwinner model replaced.

When Motherhood Meets Leadership: Rethinking Talent Culture and Performance

When Motherhood Meets Leadership: Rethinking Talent Culture and Performance

Matrescence is the profound psychological, physical, emotional, and social transformation women undergo when becoming mothers—comparable to adolescence in scope. Despite being one of the most significant developmental transitions in adult life, it remains largely unnamed, unsupported, and misunderstood in professional environments.

Why Elite Women Struggle with Marriage and Motherhood

Why Elite Women Struggle with Marriage and Motherhood

In my work as a life consultant, I often speak with professional women who have recently married and become mothers. Particularly in the early years of raising children, it’s not unusual for these highly educated, successful women to find themselves challenged by the new burdens of domesticity.